Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Happy New Year

 Birthday wishes to daughter Barbara today.   She didn't head west with the ladies earlier because she wanted to spend Christmas with granddaughter Rowan (and considering the weather the ladies drove through, it could be argued that she's smarter than them too).  Barbara will be heading west to join them in the New Year.  Enjoy your birthday and say hi to Rowan for me!

Tomorrow is the birthday of Mardi's New Year's baby, Greg.  Best wishes to him as well.  He'll be visiting Mardi on the 2nd, after I'm on my way south.

------------------------------

I had my last eye doctor visit of 2025 this morning - at 6:30 a.m. in Mississauga.  Surprisingly, despite the time and day there was quite a bit of traffic.

My left eye is now good to go.  The right eye has had some cells form on the back of the replacement lense which are clouding up the vision a bit.  That will get lasered in April when we return.

Hopefully, that will end the eye saga for both of us.  This year has been a bit life altering for Mardi and for me.  For the first time we've been feeling old and vulnerable.  Not a nice feeling and it will end at midnight as the New Year is rung in.  Better times ahead!

------------------------------------

Tonight we're having dinner with Maureen and Matt, Irene, and Stu and Georgina Beattie.  Nice way to end the year.

Take care everyone.  Stay well (actually, get well wishes to my Fishguts friend Barry who has decided to spend New Year's in hospital with a broken hip).  

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields
and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

May God be with you and bless you;.

May the wind always be at your back.
May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home,
and may the hand of a friend always be near.

May green be the grass you walk on,
May blue be the skies above you,
May pure be the joys that surround you,
May true be the hearts that love you.

If those blessings also hold true for me I'll see you in April.  Happy New Year.



Monday, December 29, 2025

My Career

 When we got together at Christmas, Sean and Malcolm asked me about my Dofasco hard hat that David had told them about.  So, we dug the hat out of storage.  I'll be taking it to the greenhouse on my next visit.


They also asked a couple of questions about my career at Dofasco, so I decided to update my memoirs and share the info from that section.

The Early Days

 

When the Bar-Don Lanes opened in Stoney Creek, dad was instrumental in forming two leagues, the Saltfleet Men’s League and the Saltfleet Mixed League.  He had bowled in a Dofasco league for a few years prior.  

It was at the Bar-Don that I got my first job as a pin setter at age twelve.  We started out setting pins six nights a week, and were upset when they cut us back to four.

 My dad died when I was in grade ten at Saltfleet High School.  The next school year I started helping the janitor sweep floors after school to make extra money.  I did my homework while I set pins at the bowling alley. 

 

The summer my dad died, and the following summer as well, I worked as a mailboy at Dofasco, carrying requisitions throughout the mill to obtain the requisite superintendents’ signatures.  Dofasco turned a blind eye to the fact that I was only 15 that first summer.  I think that I made about $30 per week.


At age 16 I added a third part time job at Clayton's Men's Wear, working Friday night and Saturday.


When I was 17 and had completed grade 12, mom asked me to quit school and start working full time.  For a year, I worked at Clayton’s Men’s Wear (at $35. per 46 hour week), until he got a job flying supplies for the construction of the DEW Line and decided that he needed a more mature person to run the store in his absence.  Although I was offered a job by Stu Chapple to work at Lee Hardware and had also been approached by Walter Scott, the manager of the Royal Bank, I decided to try Dofasco, where I started at $45 per week.


The Dofasco Days

 For the first year, I worked as a night checkein the Time Office on Depew Street, picking up time cards throughout the mill and calculating the hours worked for each person and entering into the appropriate time sheets.  For the first three months of that stint, I also worked days at the Men’s Wear store to help the new manager get into the swing of things.  I would get about three hours sleep Monday, Tuesday and Thursday, eight hours on Wednesday (a half day at the store), and virtually no sleep Friday when the store didn’t close until nine.  After closing the store at six o’clock Saturday night, I could sleep around the clock because I didn’t have to go back on nights at Dofasco until Sunday midnight.   I lost 15 pounds that summer (from 135 down to 120).

 

After a year on nights, I was brought on to days and for two years worked on payroll, calculating the pay for the hours that the night checker had entered.  I then had a short special assignment checking off the construction workers who were building the tower anneal, climbing steel girders to check off the workers to make sure that the payroll wasn't padded by the construction company.  


Then back to payroll.  At my performance review I told the boss that I wanted a transfer.  None of my coworkers had any ambition and I didn't want to spend the rest of my career calculating daily pay rates.   I was then sent for psychological testing and after a grueling day was told that I should quit Dofasco and go back to school to become an accountant (which I couldn't afford to do).  Instead, Dofasco put me on the Sales training program and I spent the next year and a half working in various labs throughout the plant, including several months in the Steel Casting department (Dante’s Inferno).  I think that I was being trained for Casting Sales but, fortunately, an opening came up as a Hot Rolled Sales Service Rep.  From there to Hot Rolled Supervisor (when I got the white hat), and eventually Manager Sales Service and Administration, in charge of Sales Service, Order Entry, Invoicing and Claims.


When I got that job, all service reps were male.  The Personnel Department interviewed both sexes, but females were never hired.  I started attending those interviews and when the female candidate was the best, I hired her.  I did make sure that I picked a real winner to minimize the chance of failure so that my purpose was achieved.  When I retired, the Sales Service department was about 30% female.


 I followed a path that would be impossible today without a university education.  My determination to achieve and dedication to the job, together with an analytical bent and long hours, helped me to finally become Director of Sales Planning and Administration, with a staff of about 80 people and a spot in the “Management Group” which got to eat in the separate executive dining room, rotated through attendance at monthly Company Directors’ Luncheons. and received stock options which augmented my salary.


A couple of years before I retired, the President, Paul Phoenix told the management group that we needed to reduce staff by 20%.  I promised my people that if they helped us reach that goal I would make sure that nobody suffered,  We achieved the goal and there was just one other department that managed to do that.  But it wasn't a "must" so the corporate goal was not achieved.  Two presidents later, it did become a "must" and what we had previously achieved was ignored.  Find another 20%.  Since I felt that I couldn't make good on my promise to save their careers, I decided that I should be the first to go, which is why I retired at age 55.  In the end, only one of my people lost her job.

If I had stayed another couple of years I would have been rich!  Arcelor took over Dofasco and then Mittal took over Arcelor.  And they gave the management group substantial stock options which they were later able to cash in for about a million dollars.  C'est la vie!


After retiring, I worked for Laurence Marshall at Larry’s Trucking and at Golden Horseshoe Tire for about three years, as Credit Manager, management assistant and finally as Purchasing Manager for Truckland, after Laurence had sold it and it changed names.  The new owner went broke after a year and my job there ended.


Perhaps my most satisfying job has been my activity as I tried to help David wherever he needed assistance., from driving loads to Brooklyn, to running the garden centre down front, to head gardener. Watching your son overcome the obstacles and challenges of entrepreneurship to build a successful business and spending time with your grandchildren on the job is as good as it gets.

Thursday, December 25, 2025

Christmas Memories

 As planned, I went to David's to spend Christmas morning with him, Sue and the family.

Sarah-Jean attended virtually..........


.................from her car in the parking lot.  She is staying with her aunts and cousin in Victoria and didn't want to wake them up.  Merry Christmas Jo=Ann, Kathryn and Anna.

Malcolm had some fun.


And Ewen decided to pick Charlie up.


I tripped over Charlie as I was getting up to leave, but no damage.  Apparently, I don't have bone density problems - my dense area is top shelf.

That's Sean watching Ewen.  No other pictures of him - he's the mature brother!

Lots of memories resurfaced during our conversations. Altogether a fine morning and a very merry Christmas indeed.  And thanks for a great breakfast David!

-----------------------------------------------

I hope that you all have had a good Christmas too.  Stay well.



Wednesday, December 24, 2025

 Today's birthday wishes go to Rebecca's husband James.  Another person who's birthday is overshadowed by the holiday celebrations.  All the best!

--------------------------------------

Mardi and I wish you all the best through the holidays.  It's a time to celebrate, a time to be joyous, to start to think about where we go from here.

Tomorrow morning, Mardi will be heading to A.J.'s to join her son and Michelle and Reggie.  I'm going to David's to spend time with his family.  A highlight of the year for Mardi and for me.  We can forget our health issues and all of the world's crises for one wonderful morning as we keep (some of) family close.  

Mardi will be thinking of son Greg and Ethan and Chloe .  I will be thinking of Barbara, Yancy, Kayt and Rowan enjoying snow in Ottawa and Jo-Ann, Kathryn and Anna dealing with rain on Vancouver Island.

We wish you all the very best Christmas and a prosperous and healthy New Year as we start to pack for our winter vacation.  

Stay well and enjoy!  


 

Sunday, December 21, 2025

The Christmas Concert

 I didn't post yesterday, so I missed the birthday of Mardi's niece, Rachelle.  Today is the birthday of another niece, Rachelle's sister Rebacca (Bex).  Birthday greetings to both.

And, in case I don't publish tomorrow, birthday wishes to my brother Roger who turns 76 - he's just a kid!

------------------------------------

Mardi and I are anxious to get this year over with, so much so that we have already exchanged Christmas presents.  Yesterday we headed out to Six Nations, where she bought me a pair of moosehide slippers.


Very nice, but you know that I'm far more romantic than Mardi.  I gave her a pair of frying pans 😇.

--------------------------------------

Tonight, Maureen, Matt and I attended the Stoney Creek United Church choir's Christmas concert.


Of course we attended because of the cute soprano.


A nice performance!

Stay well.

Friday, December 19, 2025

memories

 Our excitement today was a visit from sister Judy, who brought us coffee in exchange for her gift card won at the Turkey Roll.  Thanks sis!

======================

But, it is Malcolm's 29th birthday today.  Hard to believe that it's been17 years since the two of us explored the north rim of the Grand Canyon!  Everybody should take their grandkids on an adventure when they're twelve (the grandkids are 12, not the other person).  It's the perfect age and creates bonds that can't be broken.


Lots of good memories there!

--------------------------------------

And my girls are on the way to Victoria, having secured a spot on an earlier ferry.


Enjoy your winter getaway ladies.  See you in April.

------------------------------------------

Stay well.

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

The Bus Trip

 My crazy ladies made it to the west coast last night.  Scary stuff.

They reached Kamloops early and decided to carry on.  Some snow and two hours of torrential rain later they reached Tsawwassen.  Now they can recover for a couple of days - they are booked on the ferry to Vancouver Island on Friday.

At least I can take a breath now.

--------------------------------------

Today we did the old folks bus tour to Niagara Falls.  On our bus there were five guys, the rest women.  Pretty good odds!

As we were leaving, I noticed a letter missing from our the front of our building.  Very appropriate the way that Mardi and I are feeling!


Anyway, first stop, the Watering Can.  

It is an impressive greenhouse, but....if you want to buy plants you can save a lot of money by going to Trillium Hill.

Since I had no interest in the plants, I focussed on their scenery.  They've done a fine job of dressing the place up.  Just loved this VW.


Next stop, Niagara Casino.  The odds here weren't in our favour - nuff said.

But the show Christmas On Ice was great.  


The adult performances were darn good, and this 10 year old did pretty well too.


Then it was on to Betty's Restaurant.  The following picture will give you an idea how nice that was.


I've never seen meringue that high before.   Tasty!

Finally, we headed to Dufferin Islands, just upriver from the falls.  The light show is incredible.







 From Dufferin Islands down to Clifton Hill the light show is fantastic.  That alone was worth the trip! 

I don't think I'll do another bus trip until I lose my driver's license, but it was an interesting experience.

Stay well.



Tuesday, December 16, 2025

The Year Of The Eye

 The Trompers were hoping to get together for a lunch today, but since two members chose to move to lake effect snow country along Lake Huron it didn't happen.  Nonetheless, I was dressed for the occasion with my official15 year old Tromper gear.


See you next year guys.

----------------------------------------------

My girls, daughters Jo-Ann and Kathryn, and granddaughter Anna decided to spend the winter on Vancouver Island.   I was concerned about them heading west at this time of year into snow country.  But now, it's the rain and flooding that are a concern.

They have made it to Canmore, Alberta and today they're heading to Kamloops, B.C.  Then it's a guessing game as to which (if any) highway to take.  Stay safe my loves!

----------------------------------------------

It's probably time for an update on our 2025 vision issues.

My retina detached in April.  That was the start.

Mardi had her first cataract surgery in August, and her second in September.

My second operation was in October, to remove the silicone oil that had been inserted during the April operation.

Since September Mardi has been dealing with infections, first in her right eye and currently in her left.  The eye doctor calls it viral, the family doctor says bacterial.  So lots of drops, with fingers crossed.

Right now I can see just fine for most activities, such as watching TV, driving, and general mobility.  No real problems for anything except fine print.

My left eye vision is clear, but with a bit of distortion.  My right eye has quite a few floaters.  Fine print becomes an issue with those factors.  And I noticed at the card game the other night that there was some difficulty discerning between hearts and diamonds, and between clubs and spades on the turn up cards on the other side of the table.  But nothing that can't be handled.  Life will go on.

I fully expect to resume my lawn and garden activities at the greenhouse in the spring.  That's an important purpose for me in life  right now (in fact, if that were to stop I would probably consider it the start of the last chapter - something I'm trying hard to ignore).  And I expect to be able to follow the golf ball this year, assuming that I can hit them straight 😉.  I will test those assumptions in Florida soon.

And I hope that Mardi's eye issue is resolved by the end of the year as well so we can get on with whatever 2026 brings.  So far, we have had to cancel a card night with friends on Thursday,  And tomorrow we're supposed to take the seniors' bus trip to Niagara Falls, arranged by the condo folks.  Hopefully, that will happen - I need the casino winnings😁💩.

--------------------------------------------

Stay well my friends.



Saturday, December 13, 2025

Party Time

 It's that time of year - party time.

I attended the Optimist Club's Christmas dinner on Wednesday.  Mardi had to beg off - she was fighting a flu like fever and cough.

Yesterday, we got together with our golf friends at the Innsville for our annual Christmas party.


The event was arranged by Gary Parker, who is either conducting the choir or ordering several drinks in the picture below.  Thanks for the significant effort that you put into making this dinner happen Gary!


A couple of folks decided to celebrate the Christmas season by eating snails!  Calling them Escargot doesn't trick us. Yuck!


And tonight, Mardi and I were invited to fill in for a couple who couldn't make their monthly euchre night.  Silly looking group!


Mardi won, I didn't.  No surprise there!

Stay well.

Merry Christmas

 The tree is up.....


........and Santa is in the house, with our Christmas gifts!


Just a little worried about the Grinch tree though.


Hopefully, all will be well.

----------------------------------------

Stoney Creek's Santa Claus parade was held today.  This year the Optimist Club decided to forego our second rate float and just go with a convertible - Mardi's convertible.


Yesterday, Mardi, A.J. and I struggled to get the top down.  A couple of parts (that Chrysler no longer stocks) previously broke and fell off the trunk lid so it quits when half way open.  We were eventually successful, although we're not sure why or how.

But it easily closed after the parade so, tomorrow, it can be put away for the winter.

-----------------------------------------

And we're starting to think about our packing for Florida.  Haven't located any bullet proof vests yet, but otherwise should be OK.

At one point we considered aborting our Florida plans, but the rigors of old age, and the fact that we own Florida property made the decision for us.  

Our two weeks of timeshare ownership got us eight weeks at Orange Lake and a reasonable rental added another four weeks in Port Richey.  Too good to pass up!

I start driving south on January 2.  Expect to be at the Orlando airport on the 4th to meet Mardi's Porter flight from Hamilton.

Next year the decision will hopefully be easier.  Our timeshare should get us a full three months in 2027.  And by then, the political situation may have improved enough that our friends will feel comfortable joining us once again (we have lots of open time this year folks, just give us a call).

----------------------------------------

Stay well.




Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Food4Kids

 Birthday wishes go out today to my Tromper buddy, David "Doc" Jewett.  All the best my friend.

--------------------------------------

The Optimists donated $1,000 for a table at the annual Food4Kids banquet this morning and Mardi and I were privileged to attend.


The food is donated by vendors promoting their product so the proceeds from this huge event............


............all go towards the charity.

Food4Kids has taken on the task of feeding 1,700 hungry kids every weekend.  The kids get fed at school during the week, but when the founder discovered a 10 year old waiting for his school to open Monday morning because he hadn't had food all weekend she vowed to do something about it.  

Parcels of food are delivered to the schools on Fridays which the kids take home for the weekend.  We are proud to assist  This is one of the things that your support of our Turkey Roll helps to make happen.

The keynote speaker was Tom Wilson - musician, artist and author, who discovered late in life that he had been a victim of the "sixties scoop" and taken from the reservation and adopted by a Hamilton family.  

Very emotional talk!

An inspirational morning!

----------------------------------------

Stay well.


Friday, November 28, 2025

Tubes and Turkeys

 Yesterday, I dropped Mardi off at East Side Mario's in the Costco plaza for a luncheon with the ladies.  Then I carried on to the greenhouse to say hi to David and Sean.

They had their hands full, building a fertilized water recycling system.  This is the first section.  David is drilling holes for the piping connections.



And it's dropped into position.


Lots more work to do.  I'll leave them to it!

---------------------------------------

This morning Mardi had her final laser treatment on her blurry eye.  All is now good.

And tonight we headed to the Optimist Club for our annual Turkey Roll.  We had some winners!  Ron King, Judy Murray, David Craig, Sandro Cervoni, Jo-Ann Greene, and Mardi, who copped two wins.  The "turkeys" this year are $40 Fortino gift cards.  I will be delivering them shortly.

The fun part of the evening for me is always the turkey races.


In lane one you have "Tom", lane two "Girty". lane three "Gobble", lane four "Beefy", lane five "Wattle" and lane six "Stuff It".

I should have known better.  I bet on Stuff It every race (he's the one that the fingers are pointing to).  I forgot that before a turkey gets stuffed it has to be dead.  Stuff It sure was!

Nevertheless, a good time was had by all and the club can now continue its good work.

Stay well.


Wednesday, November 19, 2025

A Quiet Time

 On Saturday I mailed Mardi to Mexico, to join son Greg and granddaughter Chloe.  She is having a wonderful time, including dipping her toes in the Caribbean, swimming in the pool at the condo complex, and fishing.

Here is their recent catch.


They had some cooked up for their meal and the rest stayed with the Captain of the ship. 
-----------------------------------------

David and Sean are not planting Easter Lilies this year.  That crop always interfered with other plantings and created some chaos with those crops - which should be resolved with this change.  The garden centre is still active, but because of the change the growing areas are pretty quiet and will remain that way until later in December when the Geraniums will be planted, followed by other crops.

And my hand operation, which is progressing very well, has prevented me from the digging that I would otherwise be doing.  That will have to wait for spring.

So, I'm fading away.  No Mardi, no Blue Jays, and no greenhouse jobs.  Poor me!

But, I was cheered up by a delivery this morning.  "His and Hers" golf bags arrived.  

Something to look forward to.

-------------------------------------------------

It looks like the Epstein files will be released now that President Trump has reversed his position.  The prevailing theory is that the revolt of his Republican Congress and the civilization of Marjorie Taylor Green made him change his mind.  There might be another reason.  Maybe he got word that any reference to him in the files had been redacted, or that the new investigations he initiated on Friday will prevent sensitive files from surfacing.  We shall see.

-------------------------------------------------

I enjoyed coffee with David and Sean this morning.  And went for a mile walk down to the lake.  Positive stuff.

Tomorrow I'm heading out for coffee with brother Roger and sister Judy.  Between my two eye operations and my carpal tunnel operation it's some time since we've been together.  Looking forward to it!

------------------------------------------------

Stay well.  I'm trying to.



Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Remembrance Day

 Mardi and I attended the Remembrance ceremony at the Stoney Creek monument this morning.  She laid a wreath on behalf of the Stoney Creek United Church.


A solemn and meaningful ceremony to honour thousands of Canadian troops who died, mostly in other countries, most of them very young.


As the drawing points out, in the U.S. they also honour (I guess in this particular case I should spell it "honor") their troops.  They call it Veterans Day and recognize all of their veterans.

Either way, it's an important moment.  Let's not forget.

Stay well.




Saturday, November 8, 2025

Indigenous Veteran Day

 

Each year on Nov. 8, communities across the country mark Indigenous Veterans Day, a national day of remembrance that originated in Winnipeg in 1994.

Before its creation, Indigenous veterans were often excluded from Remembrance Day ceremonies.

They couldn’t march together as a group or lay wreaths at cenotaphs.

The day was established to correct that oversight and recognize the thousands of First Nations, Métis and Inuit soldiers who served in conflicts dating back to the War of 1812.

My daughters' grandfather missed out on this tribute, coming home from war with an injured knee which never worked well after that, and enduring the prejudice of the time. 

He is the man on the left.


I'll be thinking of him again on Tuesday at the Remembrance Day ceremony when I also remember my Uncle Roy and Mardi's Uncle Arn.

Lest we forget.


Stay well.

Friday, November 7, 2025

Moving On

 Birthday wishes go out to Rose Strecker today.  All the best, and I hope that Ed has gone all out to help you celebrate Rose.

----------------------------------------

I guess that it's time to put this year's baseball season to bed.  They didn't win the World Series, but they put on an awesome performance.  A series for the ages!

Can't wait to see next year's version.  I've printed off their spring training schedule and I expect that Mardi and I will be attending more than one game while we're down south..

Go Jays Go.

------------------------------------------

It's fun to watch the Conservatives disintegrate.  The Pierre Poilievre/Reform rhetoric has doomed his leadership role.  He's as good as gone.

If the Conservatives had won the last election, he would have been gone sooner.  Can you imagine him taking on Trump?  No contest!

My prediction is that if Poilievre isn't turfed, then when the dust has settled the Liberals will have a majority. 

And we won't have a tariff deal any time soon.  Trump still intends to take us over and won't give up that fruitless quest as long as he remains President.

Hopefully, the Reagan Republicans will get their backbone back and bring some sense to the political scene.

--------------------------------------

Stay well.


Halloween Horrora

 The biggest news about Halloween relates to Mardi and me.  It's the 22nd anniversary of our first date.  And a happy 22 years it has been.  Thank you my love!


--------------------------------------

On Halloween it seems traditional to see horror pictures.  So, in that spirit, I'm including a picture of my hand.


An incision on either side of the nerve and tissue removed (I assume that is what happened - I didn't watch 😟).  Tylenol 3 got me through the first three days.  The pain remains but it's now bearable.

Can't get it wet yet, so I dress up for my shower,


The eye issue remains.  Vision is bright and clear, but there is distortion.  I couldn't figure out how to accurately describe it, but the ball game gave me a clue.  I looked at the strike zone image with my left eye and it fills the bill.


With my left eye, the image is smaller and somewhat wavy.  Across the centre of my vision it's quite scrunched up and distorted.  It may improve, but I can cope if it doesn't.

----------------------------------------------------

And, as I threatened, it's time to consider the Optimist Club's Turkey Roll.





Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Fear Of Pain

 Birthday greetings today to my  niece, Lynn McIntosh.  Hope that you had a good day Lynnie!

---------------------------------------------

The past few days have been interesting, and a bit frustrating.

On Friday I headed to an Oakville Clinic for Carpal Tunnel surgery on my right hand.  Interestingly, the doctor spent the first few minutes seemingly trying to get me to cancel the operation.

He warned of several days of pain, the first two severe.

I don't fear pain (after all, I have dealt with Mardi being a pain you know where for twenty-two years 😬.But, I have a feeling that I may feel some real pain tonight😣.)

The doc was right about the pain and that has limited me for the past three days.  All I've been able to do is watch Blue Jays games.  And quite a run it has been!  I even managed to stay up until 3 a.m. this morning for their 18 inning loss.

They won again tonight to even up the series and guarantee at least one game back in Toronto to finish the World Series.  What a team!

Stay well.

Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Vision - Physical and Creative

 I had my Dr. Armogan appointment this morning and the retina is still attached.  My vision should continue to improve over the next few months.

And I managed to read the top line of the eye chart with each eye this time.  But the message was a bit concerning.

Maybe I should keep my fingers crossed for a while longer!

--------------------------------------

We watched Carney's pre-budget speech tonight.  There is no question that Canada is in for some major changes.  I'm glad that Carney is the guy in charge - he just may be able to pull this vision off.

I just can't visualize Poilievre being able to accomplish anything more than shout and sputter.  We'd be doomed if he was in charge.  Just  my thoughts.

Stay well.