Monday, September 30, 2024

Truth and Reconciliation

 I picked Matt up and we headed to Cambridge Golf this morning (in the dark).

Three of us were dressed to honour the Truth and Reconciliation Day.  I got away with no shirt collar because of the cause.


Saw a couple of other orange shirts on the course, but the day still doesn't mean a lot to most folks.

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Checked with the two resorts we will be staying at in South Carolina next week.  No problems following the storm according to them.

The CAA website shows the normal route with no warnings.  I will check their office tomorrow to make sure we won't encounter any road closures on the way down.  Should be an interesting trip!
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Stay well.




Sunday, September 29, 2024

Closing Out The Season

 Conditions were a lot better for my digging today.  No rain and moderate temperature.  I finished the front of the garden that I was working on.


Took some effort to get under the trees.  A bit of a test for an 87 year old!


Now it's time to start on the back side of that garden.


But that will have to wait until we return from Myrtle Beach.
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Blue Jays finished the 2024 season on an up note - they only lost by a score of 1-3 today 😖.  It will be interesting to see what the off season brings in the way of a (hopefully) improved lineup.

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Stay well.

Saturday, September 28, 2024

I Love Pain

 Last night, Mardi and I joined Maureen and Matt and headed to the Scout Restaurant, corner of King and Centennial to discuss the details of our upcoming trip to Myrtle Beach.

They serve Serbian dishes, the food is good and the prices reasonable.

Afterwards we passed up an invitation to play cards since I wanted to see the Blue Jays game (just two more left after last night).  Turns out that was a 5-15 mistake!  Gave up watching in the 7th inning when the wheels totally came off.  The only reliever who wasn't scored upon was the backup catcher, Tyler Heineman.  Sorry that I missed that inning. 

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Between golf and our upcoming holiday, I have just three work days, including today, until the 15th of October.  So, despite the continuing drizzle, I decided to start digging again.  Cleaned up another corner of the garden.


But, I paid the price.


Hopefully, it's a bit drier tomorrow!

If the mower doesn't return from John Deere by Tuesday morning, I won't be around to cut the grass until October 15.  A jungle cut for someone!

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Blue Jays lost 1- 8 today.  Watching them is sort of like weeding in the rain.  Apparently, I love pain!

Stay well.


Wednesday, September 25, 2024

Junior Optimists

 Two wheelbarrow loads of weeds wheeled 300 yards to the compost pile, replaced by four bags of mulch (only 100 yards each for those two trips) and just like magic we have recovered another 20 feet of garden.


But I can't wait for that mower to be returned!

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Today's highlight was an inaugural meeting of what will be a Junior Optimist Club.


Five very enthusiastic high schoolers attended our first session.  Others couldn't make it due to transportation, so our next meeting will be a hybrid including virtual attendance.

Three of us Optimist members have volunteered to be mentors to the group.  I'm looking forward to it!

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And the day ends with a Blue Jays victory.  About time!

Stay well.

Tuesday, September 24, 2024

Winter Warmth

 Today is the 34th anniversary of Al and Liz (and yes Ron King, when you compare our once or twice a week coping with Al at golf, it does make Liz look like a Saint!).  

Enjoy your day you two.  Love you both!

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Took the van in to have the wheels balanced today.  The new tires weren't quite in sync.  Need to have everything working well since Mardi and I leave, with Matt and Maureen, for Myrtle Beach next weekend.

Don't know if the golf clubs will be in sync by then.  They're harder to get in sync than wheels for sure.

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The Blue Jays blew another lead and lost their fifth game in a row.

But, all was not lost.  While watching the game, Mardi completed her 24th toque of the year.  


They'll be delivered to the food bank before the cold weather starts so the people who need them won't have to shiver so much this winter.  Well done Mardi!

Stay well folks.


Monday, September 23, 2024

I Love This Bar

 Birthday wishes today go out to Sue's mom, Sarah Ruscinski, who is celebrating birthday number 92!  Well done!

And also to Jill Parker, who is a babe in arms in comparison!  Have a good day ladies!

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Just showed up for a token visit at the greenhouse today.  I busted the mower somehow yesterday and it will have to go back to John Deere for surgical repair.

So, I changed a wheel that had a flat tire on my trailer wagon and cleaned off the work bench.  First time we've seen the surface in months!

Maybe tomorrow I'll break out a wheelbarrow and get back to weeding.  We'll see.

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Dinner tonight with Liz and Al at Teddy's.


A great visit, and we enjoyed Teddy's theme song, "I Love This Bar" by Toby Keith.

We got winners
We got losers
Chain-smokers and boozers
We got yuppies
We got bikers
We got thirsty hitchhikers
And the girls next door dress up like movie stars
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I love this bar

We got cowboys
We got truckers
Broken-hearted fools and suckers
And we got hustlers
We got fighters
Early-birds and all-nighters
And the veterans talk about their battle scars
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I love this bar

I love this bar
It's my kind of place
Just walkin' through the front door
Puts a big smile on my face
It ain't too far
Come as you are
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I love this bar

I've seen short skirts
We've got high-techs
Blue-collared boys and rednecks
And we got lovers
Lots of lookers
I've even seen dancing girls and hookers
And we like to drink our beer from a mason jar
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I love this bar
(Yes I do)

I like my truck
I like my truck
And I like my girlfriend
I like my girlfriend
I like to take her out to dinner
I like a movie now and then

But I love this bar
It's my kind of place
Just toein' around the dance floor
Puts a big smile on my face
No cover charge
Come as you are
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I love this bar
Hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm, I just love this old bar

They don't play it every night, but if you show up at 6 p.m. you might get to enjoy hearing the crowd join in.

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Stay well.

Sunday, September 22, 2024

Have a Beer?

 Had dinner with grandson Kyle last night.  A great visit.  Sorry, no pictures - maybe next time.

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But, I do have this picture.

A young man and lady were posing for pictures beside the Mum field with their pretty BMW.  As you can see on the front fender, the car looked green or purple, depending on the light.  Fascinating!

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Mardi's son Greg asked her to buy a bouquet for the funeral of Jane Hicks' mother.  Greg and Angela are good friends of Jane.

So, I asked Henry, the Trillium Hill florist, to put something together.  He did a good job.


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It looks like golf tomorrow is going to be lost due to rain.

Barry, recently sent out this bit of wisdom.  How about "If you're rained out, you get to have a beer to wipe away the disappointment"?


Blue Jays lost again today.  What's new?

Stay well.





Thursday, September 19, 2024

Health

 No post yesterday, so I couldn't acknowledge Ron Leach's birthday.  Sorry Ron.  Hope you had a great day.

But, today is Calvin's birthday and we celebrated on the golf course.

Matt made up a very nice card, which Calvin is reading as he savours one of Mardi's Moose Turds.  (At age 75, Calvin is 29 years younger than his mother.  Keep on keeping on Calvin!)


We played a scramble format today.  Ended up with a 76, only 13 strokes worse than the winners.  Oh well.

It was the closing banquet for our Dofasco league.  Nice chicken, roast potato and green bean meal.  Saw some of my old friends from the Big D.  Nice.

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The U.S. has just been graded with the worst health care of the wealthy nations, despite spending more than any of the others on health care (read insurance).

I've been on a waiting list for a couple of months for my carpel tunnel operation, with no sign of a date yet.  Nevertheless, I love our system - it is the main reason that we live five years longer on average than our southern neighbours.

But you can bet that the Republican folks will never see the wisdom of going to a universal system.  So, just the rich who can afford insurance will be looked after.  Sad.

P.S. With trips upcoming to the states, Mardi and I have just renewed our annual travel health insurance.  Expensive peace of mind.

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Stay well.

Tuesday, September 17, 2024

Sarah-Jean R.N.

 I now have two nurses in my life.  Sarah-Jean has passed her final nursing test.  Well done!


Life's next chapter is about to begin!  Enjoy!!

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With the heavy heat today I decided to just stick to watering and riding the mower.  Tomorrow I'll have to face up to digging and weeding again.

Not much else to write about.  Thankfully, Sarah-Jean made the news.

Stay well.

Saturday, September 14, 2024

Trees and Trains

 Did my minor annual pruning surgery on a Pine tree that is close to the driveway to keep it from obstructing traffic......cut off a couple more branches after this picture was taken............

.....and then recovered another 15 feet of garden edging.  Slow but sure wins the race, or loses due to winter weather.  We'll see how that turns out.

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While I was doing that, David's friend Dave Hincks was setting up a photo shoot with his ReMax folks.  

Later, they'll use the Mums to dress up their locations.

 

Hopefully, Trillium Hill will get a plug in their advertising!

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And, while all of that was going on, David, Malcolm and Ewen were pouring a new pad for the hot tub.



The excess cement was used to make some new sign posts (in the background) for the garden centre.  Waste not, want not.

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Tonight we enjoyed spaghetti dinner with Kathryn and Anna.  Then, we "let" Kathryn win at Mexican Train.  A nice evening.

Stay well folks.



Friday, September 13, 2024

Lakefront

 Headed to Chippewa Creek for our weekly golf game yesterday.  We couldn't see where we were going until part way through the back nine.  This picture was taken well after we started - it was much worse earlier in the round.


And that explains our scores 😏.

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Now that we've gotten yesterday out of the way, it's time to wish Jim Maguire a happy birthday.  All the best Jim!

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Today I completed work on a "garden" that I have been working on recently.  When I started, there were weeds three feet high.


Looks a little better now.

The Hosta was formerly out front, behind a rock that I thought would provide enough shade.  Wrong!  It got bleached out and was not at all happy.  Hopefully here, between the Pine trees, it will be much happier.  It's former spot will now feature Coneflowers.

Over the past week or so I've recovered about 30 feet of driveway gardens and edging - just 900 feet or so to go 😓.  Tough slogging in this July-like heat.
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Tonight we attended the Roselawn Theatre in Port Colborne, to see Lakefront, one of Norm Foster's comedies.

“Lakefront”, a new play by Canada’s iconic and prolific playwright Norm Foster had its world premier on the Lighthouse Festival Theatre stage in Port Dover last week, receiving a standing ovation from its’ opening night crowd.

Foster, who has written more than 70 plays and been the most produced playwright in Canada every year for the past twenty years, averages 150 productions on stage annually, according to Playwrights Canada Press.   A favourite playwright with Port Dover audiences, “Lakefront” tells the rom/com story of Christina, 68, and Robert,70, meeting at the third wedding party of her sister Norah just the week before.   Having a bit much to drink and feeling lonely and insecure about their sex appeal to the opposite sex, the couple make a madcap decision to rent a lakefront cottage the following weekend and test the intimacy waters.   So, what could go wrong?

Pretending they are married, Robert books the one and only honeymoon cabin  on a lake that has receded off into the distance thanks to climate change; not exactly the view the 20- year -old brochure depicted.   And then, there is Duane, who is managing the property for his parents.  He is the backwoods comic foil, sometimes scene stealer, who is happy to show the “shitter” in the cabin, interrupt the “newlyweds” at the most inconvenient of times, cite the noise ordinance when Christina’s orgasmic – like screeching was heard at neighbouring cabins and mooning over the “bride” as the couple attempt to enjoy a wild weekend.

Christina’s deceased husband suffered a debilitating stroke, requiring constant care for several years before he died.   She is still dealing with her guilt over the resentment she felt over the years his care took away from her.   Bob’s wife Tess has been “dead to him” for the past three years after she dumped their marriage of 30 years for a much younger man.   In every play, Foster injects moral issues and matters that tug at the heart strings.  Besides their troubled separate histories, the couple struggle with first kisses, a failure to rise to the occasion in the bedroom and more; needless to say, generating lots of laughs."

We've enjoyed every one of the Foster plays we've seen, but this one is definitely the best.  Laughs were a mile a minute.  And the audience participated.  At one point Christina says "I'm just 68 - that's not old, right?"  And a half dozen ladies in the audience yelled "RIGHT!".  Broke me up!

The show goes on until Sept. 22 in Port Colborne, but it will definitely be moving to other theatres in the future.  Well worth seeing!

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Stay well folks.

Sunday, September 8, 2024

Life

 As a follow-up to yesterday's blog, perhaps this response that I sent to Mark Richardson after my 70th birthday will help to explain who/why I am.  (Fair warning to John, Mardi gets mentioned again.)

Subject: Re: My 70th

Thanks Mark.  Going in to the party, my feeling was that 70 was just a number.  I had this vision of friends and family visiting and chatting together, blow out the candles, and go home.  Nice time.  The reality was much more emotional than I expected - especially the music that Roger and the boys wrote and "Doc and The Fishguts Tribute Band" played.  I saw two people that I had not seen for 50 years!  And everyone who showed up meant so much more to me than I had anticipated.  It was fantastic and I'm not sure I have emotionally recovered yet.

Thank you for your generous comments below.

The saying that I quoted was supposed to be an old German proverb.  "You have to take life as it happens - but you should try to make it happen the way you want to take it."  I have always translated that as "be an architect of your fate, not a victim".  Or, it doesn't matter what comes your way - deal with it and move on.  I think that approach is somehow related to the loss of my father and how I got through that period of my life.

Sometimes it takes a stroke of luck too - like finding a Mardi or a Julie to help you get through the tough times and appreciate and properly enjoy the good ones.

I'll be at your 70th - but don't be in any rush to get there.  Keep on smelling the roses.

Gettysburg here we come!

Regards,

Bud.

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A bit of gardening today and then we watched the Blue Jays lose in extra innings.  But, it's still fun to watch the young guys play.

Golf tomorrow.  Stay well.


Saturday, September 7, 2024

Aging and Farting

 There were turkeys on the course on Thursday - in addition to our foursome 😎.


This is the time of the year when turkey sightings seem to happen.  Not the kind of "birdie" that we were looking for however.

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Folks seem to have wonder at the things that I do at my "advanced" age.  

I have sometimes wondered myself what drives me and I'll share something that I wrote to myself about fifteen years ago (I do that kind of thing) that may shed some light on the subject.

ON AGING

 The round numbers associated with aging are only symbolic.  The really important milestones in life are usually contained in the crooked numbers.

 For example, I have always maintained that I was born at the age of six when we moved to Fruitland, since that is when my early childhood memories really begin.

And the trauma of age fourteen, when my dad died, shaped much of my life thereafter.  (As I write this in 2009, Sean is the same age as I was then – makes you stop and think.)   My dad expected a lot of me.  Perhaps that's what drives me.

 The arrival of children: at age twenty-one, I married Jean, and adopted Barbara and Jo-Ann; at age twenty-three, David came along; at age twenty-nine, Kathryn.  Jeffrey was adopted three years later.

 At thirty-seven, I became a grandfather for the first time.

 On my forty-second birthday, I was astonished to see how young it felt to reach a birthday that my father was denied.

 Taking a retirement package at age fifty-five, as Director of Sales Planning and Administration, was somewhat of a surprise.  My sister’s death four years later, at the same age, was a jolt.

I retired in December which didn't feel right and two weeks later started working for Laurence Marshall at Larry’s Trucking and at Golden Horseshoe Tire for about three years, as Credit Manager, management assistant and finally as Purchasing Manager for Truckland, after Laurence had sold it and it changed names.

 Perhaps my most satisfying job has been my “farm labour” activity as I tried to help David wherever he needed assistance.  Watching your son overcome the obstacles and challenges of entrepreneurship to build a successful business and playing with your grandchildren on the job is as good as it gets.

Falling in love again at age sixty-six and entering my “teenage years” has been wonderful.  The absence of any conflict in this relationship is an incredible and wondrous phenomenon."

I don't know how long this adventure will last, but I'll be "living the dream" as long as I can.   Just trying to stay alive (in every way) folks.

My formula:

- Look at life as an adventure.

- Set reachable goals.

- Be determined to achieve those goals. 

- Don't rush or panic.  Enjoy the journey.

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Now it's Sunday and we attended the Shoreliner BBQ.


Mardi took on the task of preparing and cooking the onions.  I enjoyed the eating part.  And the dessert!


I haven't tried Jim's Duck Farts yet, but I'll tell you that Moose Farts are pretty tasty!  Hope there are leftovers.

Stay well.


Friday, September 6, 2024

Lawns and Ducks

I missed a special event yesterday - the 16th anniversary of Anna's rebirth.  A special day in her life! 

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Came in to work to discover that "my" hill had been torn up.


The problem is that the old drain line had become plugged and we were dealing with a swamp in one area.  So, a new line was dug and installed and connected, starting here, at the north/west corner of the hill.


That green cage will be installed over the joint so that if (more likely when) it becomes clogged in the future, it can be blown out from this point.

The new line rejoins the previous line here, near the corner of the neighbours' fence..........


......and then heads east along the bottom of the hill, before turning north along the side of the driveway (this info is for Sean and David for future reference -  East is toward the bottom of the picture.  It does not connect to the line that I installed that follows the neighbours' fence - which is probably a good thing, but that line may need a fix too.  When things dry out I'll check that situation).

I found a pile of gravel out back that they used to cover the new joints.


Looks like I'll be adding lawn repair to my job jar!

When that was done, I did some digging and then spread some mulch.  Removed a flat tire from a greenhouse cart and took it to Ace Tire (Jo-Ann and Barbara will know where that is) for repair.

Routine day!

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As a follow-up to my RSV vaccine trial, Jim Maguire reported that he too had completed the trial and discovered that he had been given the placebo.

But, more importantly, he passed on this bit of news:

"P.S.  Speaking of Alaska, my brother-in-law and I had a Duck Fart shot in the Red Dog Saloon in Juneau, which is a watering hole for good ol’ boys.  A Duck Fart is a layered shot with Kahlua, Bailey’s Irish Cream and whiskey. The Kahlua is the bottom layer, the Bailey’s floats on top of the Kahlua for the middle layer and then a good amount of whiskey gets poured on top of the Bailey’s. Traditionally the whiskey in a Duck Fart Shot is Crown Royal.

 

Despite its name, it was delicious!"


Thanks Jim.  I plan to buy some Kahlua to complete our ingredient list so we can join you in Duck Farting!

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 I took my Mardi to dinner tonight, although they spelled her name wrong on the invitation.


We got to spend a few minutes with the owner, Nonis, who was very gracious.


An enjoyable evening, topped off by a visit to the Optimist Board Meeting where Mardi offered some recommendations regarding the setup at Peach Festival.


Tomorrow it's golf.  I probably won't want to communicate after that!

Stay well.

Tuesday, September 3, 2024

Like Father, Like Son

 While I was cutting the field over the septic system, David was mowing the back field with the tractor.   Apparently, Sean is giving him time to practice for his retirement 😉.



And, like the old man, he probably won't stop into his eighties.  It's enjoyable to get out and feel useful, and besides, it gives you the occasional fun opportunity to interact with/frustrate your son, or grandson.  Right David?  Right Sean?                                         

😇😇

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So, I did a bit of gardening and then cut grass as noted above.  But the Swallows have headed south, so all that my Pied Piper routine raised today were Grasshoppers!  Yuck!

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I'm starting to fear that I may have missed the hatching of the snapping turtles here at Trillium Hill.

But, Barry didn't miss the ones that were laid under his lawn.

Tiny creature.  Pretty neat!

Old guys like Barry and me really enjoy observing Mother Nature.  But, it makes me wonder if the kids who don't look up from their phones will ever feel the same excitement.

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Have fun.  Stay well.

Monday, September 2, 2024

Labour Day

 Greetings on Labour Day weekend.  And yes, I laboured (a labour of love though).

Let's start with Saturday.  I had marked with paint the outline of the new perimeter on this area, which has been dug in this picture - about 100 feet of digging.


So, Mateo and I started working on it.  He dug, and I filled the wagon, hauled it away and dumped it in the back field.

But, halfway along, the wagon dropped a wheel.  Couldn't be fixed and no replacements available.  So, I told Mateo to keep digging and just pile up the sod.  He finished the digging project that day.

Sunday, I asked Sean to bring up the farm wagon so that Lucas (my helper for the day) and I could load up the sod.  After about a half hour, Lucas "suggested" that I could do other things and he could finish.  Have I told you what a great group of young men David and Sean have working at the greenhouse this year?

Any way, Lucas finished it.


While that was happening I decided to rebuild the wagon.  First, I took apart the old one.


But the body wouldn't fit on the greenhouse cart that I wanted to use.  So I took apart a previous wagon and attached it to the cart.  Add a trailer hitch and we're done.


For $20 worth of hardware and a couple of hours of my time, we avoided having to spend over $200 and ended up with what should be a far more reliable vehicle.

Today I used it as I started to pretty up the area that the boys had dug.


Yes Monica, that's another cactus.  But this one will be seen, when it's blooming, by the customers when they come up the driveway.

Cut some grass and then headed home to see my sweetie.

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Enjoy your evening.  Stay well.

Sunday, September 1, 2024

A Harley Guy

 Warrant Officer Bullivant left this morning, heading to Petawawa for his next assignment.


And Mom said goodbye.


We'll be seeing him a bit more often for the next while.  Petawawa's a shorter drive than to Vancouver Island.

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Had an interesting couple of days at the greenhouse, but I forgot to take my phone/camera today so I'll fill in the blanks tomorrow.

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Stay well.

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