Thursday, April 30, 2020

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

It's Wednesday

Noticed that Matt is now signing his emails with the following message:   😷😷 😍 👶🍼

Congratulations to Matt and Maureen on the birth of another great grandchild, Lucas Matthew.
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As I threatened, the accordion came out today.  Played along to Easy Listening (it's about my playing speed right now).
That clunker is over 70 years old.  I think the clunker playing it got it when he was about 10 years old.  
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Pretty slow day.  No sense trying to create news.  And if I told you that I beat Mardi at our last game of Skip-Bo she might quit playing, so you didn't hear it from me.  We'll say goodbye for now.  Stay well.

Tuesday, April 28, 2020

Spring Is Springing

Back to the greenhouse today to cut the grass, so I took a picture of the Trillium while there.
When David and Sue bought the property there were beautiful red Trilliums at the base of the escarpment - thus the name of the farm.  But Garlic Mustard plants have poisoned the soil and the Trilliums are no more.  So my tribute garden is a memorial to what once was.

There are definitely signs of spring.
Plus, the Dwarf Forsythias are blooming, the Magnolias are getting close, and everything else is budding up.  Any day now the gardens will totally get away from me (that's an annual event) and my life will be back to normal at the greenhouse.
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I see that they have started golfing in Saskatchewan, with the usual distancing, one person per cart, and other rules.  But they have added another one - no course washrooms will be open.  Makes me think that Depends could be a good investment this summer.  It could be that people will go that route to avoid using any washrooms other than their own.

That's of course if you have any money left to invest.
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My friend Wayne sent this to me.


1 There are no bombs raining on our heads.
2. I am not a prisoner held in solitary confinement, as millions are.
3. I am not a refugee trying to escape with my life.
4. I am not standing in line waiting to fill a pot of water.
5. I have access to fresh food and I'm not starving.
6. I have hot running water.
7. My country has not been ruined by years of war.
8. I can reach my friends by phone and check in on them.
9. My friends check in on me because they care about me.
10. Any whiplash I feel about this strange turn of events is itself a sign of privilege.
11. More than half of the world would gladly trade their everyday problems for the modest inconveniences I am experiencing.
12. I may have anxious dreams but I'm dreaming them on a proper bed and I'm not sleeping on the sidewalk.
13. By staying at home, I'm helping the planet rest.
14. As long as I have my mind I can create, imagine, dream and not be lonely.
15. This global crisis connects me to people around the world and reminds me of our common humanity. This is a good thing.
16. When something tragic happens to another country next time, I will respond to it not with superiority, but humility and recognition.
17. I will fight for positive changes and economically just policies in my own country.
18. I am surrounded by books.
19. I am surrounded by love.
20. The trees have already begun to bloom.

Sage words!  Make you think (which we have lots of time to do).
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Mardi had her weekly chat with the "B" girls this morning.  Nice to stay connected.
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Tomorrow the accordion is coming out of storage.  Time will tell if the fingers can remember what to do.
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Stay well.


Monday, April 27, 2020

Bits and Bites

A few days ago I told you that Mark Richardson had lost his mother.  Yesterday we heard that Julie's mother had also passed.  She was in a nursing home in the U.K. that was unaffected by the virus and passed peacefully at the age of 95. 

Our thoughts are with Mark and Julie and their daughters and sons in this difficult time.
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Don't know how many of you were able to watch the Stronger Together show last night (6:30 to 8 p.m.).  It was patchy in places due to the home filming, but overall the performances were well worth watching.  Especially the last song, Lean On Me, that they all sang together.
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Seems that some western folk are blaming the Filipino community for spreading the virus at the meat packing plants because they live in crowded conditions, etc.  Don't show compassion - blame the victim.  We have our share of yahoos in this country too, don't we?
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Spent about three hours fixing up the signature Trillium garden at the greenhouse today, but forgot to take the camera.  Then, I forgot to bring my mask home.  Something about old age I think!

So, I went over my will wishes with David.  He wants me to spend all my money before I go - may not be too difficult the way things are heading!  I'm still planning to be well above average in the longevity sweepstakes, which will certainly chew into what's left.  It was a light-hearted conversation - just covering the bases.

Watched a steady flow of cars doing their shopping at the greenhouse.  Just enough to keep people at a safe distance.  Nice!
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Rain forecast for the next three days.  It may be time to get out the accordion.  Don't tell Roger - he will probably want Fishguts to do a Zoom concert.
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Mardi has added a trip to Thailand to her bucket list.  A beautiful country, best seen while riding an elephant.  Her son Greg visited Thailand while he was posted to Cambodia during the killing fields genocide.  Maybe he could ride shotgun.
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I think the bartender retired.
Stay safe.


Sunday, April 26, 2020

The Political Winds Are Blowing

A strong wind from the north-east had the waves pounding today.  They even breached our shorewall.
And the poor guy who lives across the street had his two rows of sandbags deployed - one at the edge of the driveway, one further toward the house.
He's had that house up for sale since before we moved in, sixteen months ago.  Not likely going to happen unless he gives it away - over the years it has been flooded several times.  
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Quite a political conversation ensued as a result of yesterday's blog.  Very interesting!

As a mea culpa, I did like Stephen Harper.  He did what he said he would do, controlled his right fringe, didn't suck the system dry for personal gain like a lot of politicians do, and contained the deficit until near the end, which didn't win him any friends.  Trudeau beat him by promising to spend our way to oblivion (but he does have cute socks).  

And, despite my wailing about not having a party to vote for, my vote is wasted anyway.  For several years now our riding has gone NDP, both federally and provincially.  So I vote and then come home - sadly, I have better luck at the Casino!
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And Kathy Gruhl's article certainly hit all the right buttons!  As I said the other day, it's sad to watch that formerly great nation self-destruct!
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Mardi has counted up the days - she has been home and isolated/social distanced for 42 days.  For me it's been 38.  Time sure flies when you're having fun!
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Oh oh!  Time to go.  The bartender beckons.
See y'all tomorrow.  Stay well.

Saturday, April 25, 2020

A Slow Day

A lot of uncomfortable realities are being uncovered by the coronavirus.  Nursing homes are just the worst.  A very close second are the meat packing companies in Canada and the U.S.

The following story highlights why.
https://calgary.ctvnews.ca/death-is-so-real-immigrant-group-says-meat-workers-afraid-after-plant-closure-1.4911742

We knew that temporary foreign workers were a necessity for the farming industry.  I don't think many of us were aware that apparently 70% of the packing plant workers are from Indonesia, and the balance from Mexico, China and Vietnam.  The plants are not owned by Canadians, and those foreign owners didn't do anyone a favour with their inhuman approach to COVID-19.

A hard, physical, and smelly job done by people desperate for work, being paid less than they are worth, and afraid or unable to speak up when their lives are being sacrificed.  

There are going to be a lot of things to fix when this is over.  But I surely hope that this is not one of the ones that ends up being swept under the carpet.
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Mardi and I went for a walk today to enjoy the sunshine and moderate temperature.  People are being very careful, but also very polite - nice to experience.
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The forecast for tomorrow is for rain and cooler weather.  Think I'll start to plan the rebuild of the last section of kitchen cupboards.

The drawers on the left will be built into a new box with drawer slides.
Which will eliminate this problem.  That's the spoon drawer by the way😊.
And the two doors to the right will be used on the mobile appliance garage that I previously built (pot roast currently in progress).
A new set of large drawers will go where the doors are now.  But I'll have to wait until Home Depot, Lowes or Rona are fully open - not going to order anything without being able to put my hands and eyes on it.  In the meantime, measure and plan.
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Monday promises to have nicer weather so I'll be going back to the greenhouse to do some gardening.
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Stay safe.  Stay well.  

Friday, April 24, 2020

A Bird's Eye View

Gary Parker sends his family and friends a weekly update on the news at his house.  In this week's issue he included the following item:


Often in nature we see examples of birds and animals imitating each other in order to gain some kind of evolutionary edge over the competition. I was reminded of that strategy when I saw these two gold finches at our feeder.  It occurred to me that it’s a behaviour that’s not confined to the animal world.


I’ll leave it to the anthropologists to riddle what possible advantage our friends Bud and Matt hoped to gain when they ordered matching shirts in the same glowing canary-yellow colour? We know that male birds sport vivid colouring to enhance their attractiveness to females. However these two old codgers are happily married so its not the mating thing that’s driving them. The only thing bird-like about these two is the amount of ‘crowing” they’ve been doing since their quoit victory two years ago.

Editor's note:  Even though Gary was carried to victory last year by Big Al, it seems he's still smarting from his loss in 2018.
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Here's some good news!  Barry has found Lillian and she has come out of the closet.  Turns out that the closet she chose to hide in is where he stores his cases of red wine.  Just a matter of time eh?
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In related news, I ate my soup with a fork today.
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I see that President Trump is being criticized for recommending that people consider injecting bleach, etc. to kill the coronavirus.  In a way he's right you know.  If you inject bleach you will not die of COVID -19.  You'll already be dead from the bleach.
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Gary talked about the birds at his feeder.  How about this one?
Jake flushed this guy from the escarpment and chased/accompanied it to the greenhouse (Jake was taught not to kill birds when David had chickens, so it was play time for him - probably not so much for the turkey).  The turkey tried to hide between two bales of soil and got trapped.  Here it is with the twins after being freed.  It's now enjoying its freedom once again.
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Spent a couple of hours cutting grass at the greenhouse while Mardi volunteered to help fix up the baskets that the Grimsby Horticultural Society will be hanging downtown.   

The Killdeers are getting ready to nest.
Next time I cut the grass they'll do the wounded warrior trick to lure me away from their eggs.  There are usually four or five pairs in the field so I'll have to watch for them and mark the spots to avoid hitting the eggs with the mower.
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David has a decent collection of plants available.  It's still a bit early to plant the garden - he'll be adding to the inventory in the coming days.
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Watched Governor Cuomo of New York State today when he was responding to the Senate leader, Mitch McConnell, who said that if the states didn't have enough funds they should just declare bankruptcy because the government (his Senate) wouldn't provide them with any additional funds during the COVID-19 crisis.

Cuomo pointed out that year after year, New York State has been the largest net fiscal contributor to the nation, whereas McConnell's Kentucky has taken the third most money of Federal funding.  And, in pointing out that having any state declare bankruptcy would devastate the stock market and the economy, Cuomo dared McConnell to go ahead and draft a law that would allow a state to declare bankruptcy.

It's about time someone took on McConnell. Wish that Cuomo was President!
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I have visited every American state.  It's a beautiful country and in almost every case the people have been great.  It's a real shame to watch such a great nation self-destruct.
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Speaking of self-destructing, I think that Mardi is about ready to suggest Tiddlywinks after losing some more games of Hand and Foot and Skip-Bo.
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Stay safe.  Stay well.  Stay out of the wine closet!

Thursday, April 23, 2020

Another Day

Today's birthday boy is Wayne Hilts.  Wayne and wife Judy live in Sydney, B.C. and we were able to visit them during our trip to Vancouver Island to see Greg and his kids last September.
Best wishes to my long time friend!

Wayne is in charge of his older brother's health and Stewart is currently in a Washington State long term care facility.  A long distance dilemma for sure.
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I've mentioned the Optimist Club and a bit about what it does.  Just received the following list of what the club has donated to the community this year.

Rob Macdonald $330.00
Hamilton Public Library $500.00
Hamilton Challenger Baseball $500.00
The Canadian Warplane Heritage Museum $700.00
Mohawk College – Popsicle Bridge Bursary $750.00
Stoney Creek Community Food Bank $250.00
Camp Keaton/Dr. Bob Kemp Hospice $750.00
Food 4 Kids $2,000.00
Golf Tournament - Gord Ames and Bill Hamilton $200.00
Challenger Baseball $1500.00
Habitat for Humanity Hamilton $500.00
Canadian Children’s Optimist Foundation $500.00
Saltfleet Secondary High School (Bursaries) $500.00**
Orchard Park Secondary High School (Bursary) $500.00**
St. John Henry Newman Secondary High School (Bursary) $500.00**
Stoney Creek Community Food Bank $1000.00
Ronald McDonald House $350.00
Delta Tau Master Sorority $1000.00
Alpha Delta Master Sorority $750.00
The Equestrian Assn for the Disabled (TEAD) $750.00
Stoney Creek Santa Claus Parade $500.00
Stoney Creek Legion Remembrance Day $70.00
Stoney Creek Warriors Hockey Assn $250.00
Stoney Creek Girls Hockey Assn $500.00
Orchard Park High School Robotics Team $300.00
*S.S.H.O.P.S.S. $500.00
Crime Stoppers Hamilton $300.00
YWCA Phoenix Place $300.00
Jay Perry “Friends with Hearts” $350.00
East Hamilton United Boys Soccer $150.00
Saltfleet Stoney Creek Boys Soccer $100.00
Total $16,650.00
*S.S.H.O.P.S.S. - Staff and Students Helping Orchard Park Students & Society
** The awarding of these bursaries may be subject to the School’s ability to make the awards because of the school closings.
In addition, a total of $3260.00 was approved for community projects that were cancelled due to the current covid -19 pandemic.

Thanks to those who have supported our projects and enabled us to share with the community.
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On a day when the temperature was in the low single digits and amid a combination of ice pellets and light drizzle, Trillium Hill has opened.  The light traffic made it easy for the cars to keep a social distance.

Inside, the arrows are in place.
Just need to add customers.
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Stay safe. Stay well.  Keep positive thoughts.

Wednesday, April 22, 2020

I Live With An Older Woman

Not older than me, but older nonetheless.

Mardi spent a lot of time yesterday receiving, and responding to, good wishes from her fans via virtual means, telephone, emails and all the other platforms that she uses.  It was fun to watch - all but the video that Barry sent which, for some reason, all of her female friends thought was hilarious.  I'm sure that Jim Maguire, Gary Parker and I aren't the only ones who are mystified by that.  And for the record, I know where the spoons are kept - in that drawer that I need to fix.

In any event, thanks for your outpouring of love for my lady.
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I must confess to conflicted feelings about the early opening of the economies of some of the U.S. states.  

On the one hand, I think they're premature and I fear the plague will just get worse.  But on the other hand, I think of the thousands of hanging baskets that David grew, most of which were destined for the U.S. market.  The openings of some states may be too late to help him much, but I surely hope he doesn't take another bath.  Worst possible time of year for a pandemic to hit.  Not a happy time in the Ontario greenhouse industry!
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To offset that, some good news!

A couple of days ago, as Mardi and I were getting out of the van, a strong wind gust tore the door out of my hand as I was getting out.  It hit the car beside us with a bang.
The part that has been rubbed is where the damage occurred (the yellow line is a reflection of the painted line on the pavement).  Not really bad but dented nonetheless.  

There was nobody around so I left a note on their windshield confessing and included my insurance information.

Yesterday, a lady knocked on our door and advised Mardi that it's an old car and they'll maybe Simonize it to hide the scuff mark, but don't intend to get the dent fixed.

Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Stewart!
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As a follow-up to my live theatre comments of a few days ago, we received an email today advising that Lighthouse Theatre has cancelled their 2020 summer program.

We have applied the value of our tickets towards their 2021 season.

So far, we have done that with the golf excursion we had planned for Byrncliff in New York State and will also be doing with whatever part of Theatre Aquarius' season ends up being cancelled.  Things to look forward to next year.
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While we're talking about next year, we have pretty well decided that we will not be going to Florida.  Because we must use some of our points or lose them, we plan to book the first four weeks of January in a two bedroom, two bath unit at Orange Lake (you saw a typical unit in our January/February postings) and put them up for sale as a package for $4,000 Canadian, which would cover our maintenance and other fees and give us a small profit.  If you know anyone who might be interested give us a call.
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Today was wax the floors day.  I helped move the furniture - Mardi waxed.  She's currently hiding in the closet - I think my work is done.
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Tomorrow we plan to visit the greenhouse and help out if we can.  A high of +1 C will likely keep the crowd under control.
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Stay well.

Tuesday, April 21, 2020

It struck me that some of my readers have never met "Sven" so let me introduce him.
OK so he's not too humble!

The back story begins with a guy named Gary Parker  who sent his DNA for analysis and discovered that some of his ancestors were Norse, whereupon he adopted the name Sven Parkerburg.
He claims to be a Viking, but I can hear Big Al snorting that Sven is short and Vikings were much taller.

In his previous lives Gary has also been known as Andy (he wore sleeveless sweaters to high school and resembled his TV hero Andy Hardy), Arnie on the golf course, Annie when his putts came up short (there's that word again).  

I finally figured out why he needs all of these alternate personalities.  Gary loves birthdays and each of his alter egos can have their own, thus he is able to talk about his birthday all year long - interminably!
But we love him just the same and his movie making capability is pretty awesome.  Thanks partner!
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As advertised, I went to the greenhouse today and fired up the John Deere.  Two hours of fresh air on my favourite ride.

David had nine people working in the greenhouse today, not counting Ewen and Sarah-Jean, but still no revenue.  He plans to open the garden centre on Thursday and is currently getting it marked and measured.
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Queen Bee

The birthday person of the day is Mardi.
Oops!  Sorry!  Didn't intend to scare you.
Let's try another one.
Hmmmm.  OK.  One more.
That's better!  That's my sweetie!

Now I'm going to get a bit sappy.  If you saw the card I gave her you'd be able to read it so, with some minor embarrassment, I'm repeating it here:

"Today is about you.
And how grateful I am to have you as my wife.
I'd be lost without your love in my life."

Especially in these days of social distancing!  Love you babe!  

Seventeen wonderful years!  Now let's play cards😇.

Mardi is part of a group of four ladies who designate themselves as the "Bees".  Figure out your own interpretation!

This morning one of her phone calls was with the other Bees via Messenger.
Technology is certainly wonderful!  I'll have to check it out someday.

I'm going to send this out early today.  If anything exciting happens I'll reload.  
All the best from the Queen Bee and me.
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Sunday, April 19, 2020

A Time To Reflect, A Time To Connect

Sooner or later we will all likely be touched by the coronavirus death of someone we know.  It happened to me and my Dofasco/Tromper friends today when we received the following message from Mark Richardson.
Hello Friends

Thank you Gary for sending out a note regarding my Moms passing. 

It was complications from the Covid virus that finally took her. She battled it strongly for ten days but this was the one she couldn't win.

Fortunately the virus did not lead to pneumonia, but did weaken her body and she passed peacefully due to the excellent end of life care she received from her residence. Her care worker was with her through the final hours holding her hand.

My sister and I had a video call with Mom yesterday morning that gave us both comfort. She had a good long life and she has a strong spirit that I believe is now in a better place.

Time to hug your loved ones,
Sparky
Thank you for allowing me to reprint your message Mark.  

We met Mark's Mom on one of our Tromper outings and she was a beautiful lady.  Our thoughts are with Mark and Julie and with Mark's sister.
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Today the number of deaths in the U.S. from COVID-19 surpassed the number of deaths caused by guns in that country.

The last published stat that I could find showed 39,773 gun related deaths in 2017.  At one point today the U.S. death toll from COVID-19 was 40,585 and rising.

Two thirds of the gun deaths are suicides.  With the trauma of COVID-19 causing significant depression, the suicide portion of gun deaths, and therefore the overall total, will likely increase in the next few months.

Within a year or two a vaccine for COVID-19 will be discovered and deaths from this cause will greatly diminish.  But, there is no vaccine or cure of any kind in sight for the rate of gun related deaths in the U.S. and there is very little political heart to change the American mentality.  They will continue to arm themselves in preparation for the inevitable civil uprisings that they think will occur, especially if Trump loses the next election and, predictably, stirs up his followers to revolt.  Could be one more reason to avoid Florida next winter.

The National Rifle Association is fond of saying "guns don't kill people, people kill people".  But it seems to me that people with guns kill a lot more than people without guns.  There is absolutely no hope that the U.S. will ever resolve this issue.
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I made a comeback at the Hand and Foot table today.  As a result, Mardi is now talking about 500 Rummy.  I had been hoping that Skip-Bo might once again be an option - maybe not😔.  I sure hope that we don't end up playing Go Fish!
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I don't know how many of you typically watch CNN but I particularly like watching Brooke Baldwin (and not just because she's beautiful).  I can totally relate to the comments that she makes in the following link.
https://www.cnn.com/2020/04/19/health/coronavirus-diary-sickness-brooke-baldwin/index.html
I don't have the illness (cross my fingers) but dealing with the concerns it causes has led me to bare my soul at times in this blog.  Makes me feel more connected.  Hope it helps others as well.
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And a hearty "well done" to Sven and Helga Parkerberg for the following, well done, video.  We do need some laughs!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0kxzKeZcqk&feature=youtu.be

Only bad news Sven/Andy/Arnie/etc. is that you will probably be sued for copyright infringement, either by Fishguts or by Barry, or both, for unlawful distribution of our music/art.
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Tomorrow the plan is to escape to the greenhouse, climb aboard the riding mower and enter Nirvana as I 
manicure the farm.  We'll reconvene after that.
Stay well.

Saturday, April 18, 2020

Pee Time

Since we switched to Hand and Foot my luck has definitely gone south!  In the vernacular, I can't pee a drop.  Mardi is crushing me.  I've even considered the balcony option, but the first step looks bigger than I thought (glad that Mardi held off on that gambit - it might have been messy!).
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Speaking of peeing, last night on TV a health expert was asked his opinion of opening up one state while the one next door is still dealing with high infection numbers.  His answer: "it's like choosing one location in a pool where it's OK to pee".

Meanwhile, Trump is encouraging his stupid followers to protest and ignore the social distancing rules in states that are ruled by Democratic governors.
What an ass!  
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I didn't make it to the green house today, but I did get a message from David.

New blades, oil change, new spark plugs, inflated tires and general clean up done. The new air filter was not in stock, but is paid for and will be at dealer on 20 Hwy on Monday. Under Trillium Hill.
The grass is calling you.


See you Monday grass!
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As I close off tonight, the card table beckons once again.  I'll screw up my courage and have a go.
Stay safe.  Stay well.  Stay home.

Friday, April 17, 2020

Days Of Our Lives continued.

Today is Matt's birthday.
And a toast to you too my friend!

We're living just over a mile apart but haven't seen each other since March in Florida.  Now that's social distancing!
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Mardi and I enjoy live theatre and are subscription members of Theatre Aquarius for their fall to spring series and of The Lighthouse Theatre in Port Dover for their summer shows.

Theatre Aquarius has cancelled the balance of their most recent show, and rescheduled the next one, the musical Ring of Fire celebrating Johnny Cash, until August/September.  And it's time to renew for next season's fall startup.

Personally, I just don't see people sitting shoulder to shoulder (and letting people squeeze past) in an indoor venue any time soon.  And thinning out the audience by leaving some empty seats between folks isn't financially viable.

I believe that the August/September show will inevitably be pushed back further or cancelled.
We're going to hold fire for now on booking next season.

Our first show at The Lighthouse is booked for May 22.  Haven't heard from them yet but this is sure to be cancelled/delayed as well.

Difficult times for the entertainment industry.
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I'm loved once again.  Not just getting phone calls from places like Sierra Leone, Barbados, Colorado, Texas and the like, but Spam is back!

One (of the two I received) was supposedly from Dave Jewett but his name was followed by bayleigh.smith@506students.org.  Hey Doc, if this was legitimate please get back to me.
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However, to offset the love shown above, Mardi has announced that we have stopped playing Skip-Bo.  Don't know why - I'm only up 10 games to 8, with a differential of 1,190 points.  

Oh well, the cards were getting sticky anyway.  I'll have to relearn Hand and Foot now.

Mardi has said that if she loses at Hand and Foot too she will jump off the balcony!

Big deal - it's only 15 feet to the roof of the entrance way.  But you all now know if it actually happens it's not my fault (unless being a superior card player is a fault).

Post Mortem: I was afraid of seeing her jump.  So I let her crush me.  But I will come back!
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Stay  safe.  Stay well.  Stay home.

Thursday, April 16, 2020

Optimism

The Optimist Club of Stoney Creek is currently on hiatus due to the coronavirus, but their first meeting in April is always a milestone for me (it would have normally happened last Wednesday, but I wasn't paying attention at the time).

It was sixty years ago this month that I was inducted into the club.  Wilf Barlow, who owned Bar-Don Lanes and had been my boss since I started to set pins at age 12, and my surrogate father since I was 14, invited me to join the club the month before David was born (which also tells you how old he will be on May 2).

My first duty with the club was when the old Saltfleet High School (which is now Cardinal Newman High School) was replacing its bleachers and donated its old wooden stands for Little League Park.  I rode on the farm wagon from the school to the park and helped set the stands in place.

I was the first President to serve two separate terms, and both were in significant years - Canada's centennial in 1967, and the U.S. bicentennial in 1976.

In 1992 the club decided to nominate me to receive one of Canada's 125th anniversary medals for service over the years (I used to be a lot more active than I am now) and it hangs proudly above my desk.

The club started out as a group of businessmen, just one allowed from each profession.  But men's service clubs started to fade and as our members grew older we were on the brink of closing.  Fortunately, Optimist International changed the rules and allowed women to join.  Our wives had started an Opti-Mrs. club which was very active and most joined the Optimist Club and rejuvenated it.

Several years later, as that group aged, the club once again started a decline.  Mardi's son A.J. joined about that time and within a couple of years had used his network of friends to bring in many younger members.  A.J. has also served more than one term and has done more than any of us to keep Optimism alive and well in Stoney Creek.

The club is in good hands and currently thriving under a young lady named Jennifer Accardo.  Mardi and I remain members and contribute when we're here (including Turkey Roll and the baseball booth), but we miss three busy Optimist months while in Florida.

In today's environment, service clubs are needed more than ever.  It will be interesting to see how that translates as we emerge from COVID-19.
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As Edward Bok, who donated a magnificent bell tower amid floral gardens to the people of Florida said;
"Make you the world a bit better or more beautiful because you have lived in it."
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And, in these troubled times the Optimist Creed is more relevant than ever:

The Optimist Creed


Promise Yourself

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

We all have trouble living up to those promises, but try it and make the world a better place!

And so ends today's sermon.
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Mardi and I are currently in a coronavirus test group! 

The World Health Organization is suggesting that drinking alcohol may heighten your risk of contracting the virus because of the increase of  careless drunken actions (they also fear more 
physical abuse).  So, we are risking our lives to see if this is true, in the altruistic interest of helping our fellow citizens.

You're welcome!
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Australia has quickly reacted to this new information from the WHO.  Effective immediately, they are restricting alcohol sales to a maximum of 12 bottles of wine and two cases of beer per customer per day.  That should do it!
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Mardi did a shop today.  We should be good for another two weeks I hope.



I'm definitely getting some cabin fever, but with the temperature at plus 3C I'm going to try to last until Saturday when it's forecast to be a bit warmer.  Then I'll head to the greenhouse and hope that the riding mower works.  

If this desperation continues I may have to get the accordion out of the storage locker!
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Stay strong.  Stay well.  It will get better!   

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

50 Things

Here's an exercise for you while you're housebound: update your list of 50 things to do before you die.  I'm sure that with what we're going through right now it will look very different than any such list you previously put together!

For my part, trips to Scotland, Ireland, Australia and New Zealand have moved to the back of the list.  Attending my grandkids' weddings is near the top (so far only Yancy and Kate, but no rush for the other kids - remember I'm going for above average on the longevity scale).

I found an old list that I had generated years ago.  Surprisingly, many had been accomplished - the most recent being my sail plane ride this past January.

Others:

Machu Picchu - Grandson Sean and I completed a 75 mile hike to this beautiful site in 2006.
The 28 mile hike to cross the Grand Canyon with Ewen in 2014.  

About 97% of the Bruce Trail with the Trompers (the other 3% doesn't matter - being with my friends does).
Our trip to Kruger Park and Capetown, South Africa with Ethan in 2011.

The Alaska Highway, and the White Pass and Yukon Railway (narrow gauge) ride to Skagway, with Mardi in 2017.

The Great Wall of China, the Xian warriors, and the Three Gorges with Mardi, Bonnie and Steve.


Top of the World Trade Centre with Roger a year before 9/11.

I have visited all 50 U.S. states, all 10 Canadian provinces, but only one territory, the Yukon.

Ten countries in Europe so far.
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Let me know how you make out.





Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Another Day But No Dollar


I was sent this link by my friend of 77 years, Wayne Hilts.  We moved next door to the Hilts family when I was 6 and he was 4 (in 1943).  We would be gone all day exploring the escarpment, watching pilots in training fly overhead in noisy Harvards while we built forts and looked for the enemy.  Our parents didn't worry about us as far as I know.  A kinder, gentler time in retrospect.

If you had any doubts about social distancing this video explains the benefits!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4PnSYAqQHU

Ohio is successfully flattening the curve!  Well done!
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I suspect that some of you may be getting tired of my daily blurbs, but I don't care because doing this is my therapy, helping me get through the days.  

It's keeping me sane - OK that's a stretch - but it's helping me pretend that I'm not getting worse!

So, thanks!
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One of the things that makes me feel loved is that I apparently have some wonderful friends in the Barbados.  Over the past two days I have received six phone calls - as fast as I block one a different number calls.  What determination!  Don't know what they're selling, but I'm not a buyer!
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Don't ever put me in a nursing home!  What a criminal disaster they are!  Shoot me instead.

Don't know what the future holds when the inevitable inquiries into these businesses is complete, but for sure it's going to cost a lot more to house those in need.  One person to a room is the minimum change required.  Better pay for an adequate number of front line workers as well.  Add in an aging population and there is going to be a major need for more, and better managed, homes.
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Our outing today was for oil changes for our vehicles.  Mine at 272,000 kilometres was due and, since my purchase of a replacement van seems like it will be on pause for some time, I decided to be responsible.  

Mardi's, at 93,000 for a 13 year old car, is basically an annual event.  Her convertible has been in hibernation since November.
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I don't know how many of you waste your time like I do watching Trump's daily press events, but it's certainly a head shaking experience!  November can't come quickly enough for our southern neighbours. 
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Stay strong.  Stay well.  Stay safe.

Monday, April 13, 2020

A Quiet Day

I stayed hunkered down today.  Mardi's only outing was to the dentist.

Nothing much to report so I'll keep it short.

COVID 19 deaths in the U.S. now top 23,000 and will eventually surpass shooting deaths in the U.S. which hover around 40,000 per year.  Sort of puts things in perspective doesn't it?

The U.S. death rate from the virus is 10 times higher per capita than the Canadian death rate.  Let's stay responsible with our social distancing and keep it that way.

Stay safe. Stay well. Stay optimistic.

Sunday, April 12, 2020

Easter Sunday

Dark humour probably isn't the best way to start an Easter Sunday posting, but I can't resist sharing the following article which was discovered by Roy Mandy.
Canada Helping to Save the Economy:
        To help save the economy, the Government will announce next month that the Immigration Department will start deporting seniors (instead of illegals) in order to lower Old Age Security and CPP costs.  A major study concluded that older people are easier to catch, offer less resistance, and—most importantly—will not remember how to get back home.
        Be sure to send this notice to your relatives and friends so they'll know what happened to you! . . I started to cry when I thought of you . . . then it dawned on me --I'll see you on the bus!
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Mardi and I did a small shop for Kathryn today (it was hard to find a store open!) and met her while she and Anna were walking Kimi.
The four of us (and the dog of course) then made the quarter mile hike to my sister Judy's.
Covered a couple of family bases today.  Felt good!  And the walk was more exercise than I've had for quite a while.  Over 3,000 steps!
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Unfortunately, I can't get to see Barbara and Jo-Ann who live in Ottawa and that won't likely change for a few months.  I have concerns because they both have underlying health issues and are entering the age demographic that is at risk.  I know they will take care during these dark days.  
Love you both!

The four of us had planned a Maritimes tour for this summer and that has now been indefinitely postponed.
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Glad that I was able to visit China twice over the years.  Wouldn't want to go back there now, or in the near or distant future!

Actually, going back to the U.S. is not in the cards for a while.  Their failure to provide universal health care is coming back to haunt them and has made their experience with COVID 19 so much more devastating than Canada's.

Prior to this disaster, their life expectancy was four years less than ours - 79 versus 83 -  mostly at the expense of their poor who can't afford decent health care (although they do shoot each other a lot more than we do).  That gap will only widen over the next year or two.

OK, so my age is now equal to the average life expectancy in Canada.  I intend to prove that I'm really above average!
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Talking about shooting reminds me that gun and ammunition stores, target ranges and the like, have been declared essential services in the U.S.  Gun sales are booming.  They are a sick country!  

Civil War - The Sequel isn't far off I'm afraid.  If this virus doesn't set it off, then Trump's defeat in the next election surely will.  And, scarily, it's the Republicans who own most of the guns!
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Mardi "attended" church via their audio service on Good Friday and again today, and I know she has shared part of the written sermon with you.  I am not a believer, but I hope that those of you who are have received comfort on this day of renewal.

We'll meet again tomorrow.  Stay safe and well.

Saturday, April 11, 2020

Another Day

Today's birthday girls are Sue and Reggie.

It's hard to get Sue to pose for the camera, so I am showing a five year old picture of her and family as I was about to abscond with 12 year old Ewen (notice her hanging on to him!) for our Grand Canyon crossing adventure.   

As an aside, Ewen is now the tallest member of the Craig family at 6 foot 3!

And here is Reggie (she's the pretty one in white, hugging her best friend, Drew).
With school paused, Reggie is an essential worker at Arby's these days.

All the best to both!
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Now that I have regained my composure from yesterday's post it is probably time for an explanation for some of my newbie readers.

David's line: "It must be satisfying to have lived long enough to see your son grow up." was only partly self-deprecating humour.  David is keenly aware that the many triumphs and occasional tragedies that we have shared as father and son were earlier denied to me by the premature death of my father when I was 14.  My dad would have been extremely proud of my son!
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Pretty maudlin!  I should be old enough to handle this stuff by now.
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Stopped by the greenhouse to deliver Sue's card and it was like one of the scenes from Field of Dreams.  Give it away and they will come!  A stream of cars were driving up to the greenhouse, turning around in disappointment and heading back to the road again.  Wish that I had taken a picture!

When David finally opens we can only hope that they remember to come back.
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Take care.  Stay well.  Enjoy your Easter Sunday.